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Against Bully by SnaiLords Against Bully by SnaiLords
Disclaimer: I am no professional. Follow advice at your own risk.
By: An ex-victim of bullying. 

Of course, first step and utmost important if you are being bullied. NOTIFY an authoritative figure. Principle, counselors, a teacher.
Mostly because if anything shall happen in the future, like a lawsuit. You have evidence against the bullies. 

However, I found out that unless you stand up for yourself, the problem will not go away.


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animething7 Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
I use step three heavily. Everyone in my middle school thought i'd murder them. But then in highschool everyone found out ima big softie -.-
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black-wolf-devil Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist Writer
As long as you do all the other steps, step 1 is not necessary... Sometimes it's difficult to find someone whose company you enjoy, in the meantime just be an assertive lone wolf. No one will mess with that murderous glare XD
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Undeadgrrl Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2014  Student Artisan Crafter
May I post on facebooks? I will credit you!
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SnaiLords Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Go for it!
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willowspritex3 Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014
This somewhat makes me really proud. I've realized these sort of things throughout these past few years of my adolescent phase. ;cough;Considering the fact that I'm such an introverted, antisocial hermit; I've always had this "confident" way of thinking.
Theses tips, per say, really do work. It all depends on how strong the individual will strive to gain this confidence and fond perspective of self-awareness.
Once I turned sixteen, I changed the physical parts of me that I wasn't entirely fond of. Style and appearance wise. Though during middle school, I got judged and abandoned by old friends who thought I was "trying too hard" to fit in, as to say. Though, looking back at it, who is to tell you how you should grow?
Changing something about you that you do not find pleasing is not a crime. It's more of a step to that exact confidence that you need. I became super antisocial since 8th grade, and I tend to be more sociable online. Though in person I freeze up. But I've taught myself to keep my chin up and walk with a sophisticated state of mind. Always smiling and trying hard to like.. not get aggravated by ignorant humans, lul. Sigh. It's such a hard thing to do. Though, I can't say I've ever been bullied or rather im just oblivious to those sort of things, tips like these work as to not beating yourself up. Negative thoughts will only bring negative events. So keeping a good reminder as to something like this, will truely help. Though, I think I sound silly. So I'm gonna stop now. Gawd. This turned out longer than expected. ;hides in hermit hole;
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SnaiLords Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014  Student Digital Artist
People are always reluctant to changes. ^^ I bet whatever friends that stayed with you regardless of your changes
are the ones worth keeping though.

XD I love that you have that mentality. The confident way of thinking. We do a lot of self-fulling prophecy. Might as well make it positive.
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Eib0n Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2014
where has this been 8 years ago D=
still helpful now though
I think I'll go in search of self defense courses, it might help with my selfconfidence

thank you~
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SnaiLords Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Self defenses course definitely help ^^

Damn I'm sorry for being 8 years too late
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Eib0n Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2014
only need to find the time for it xD (stupid work shedules)

nah, you don't have to be
it's character building in a way too
and it helped controlling my homicidal thoughts ;D

how are you doing?
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BloodBeatnJustice Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2014
I agree with most of that. As a former bullied person. My best trick was developing a reputation. U kick enough ass (in self-defense only through my assorted martial arts) & people think u can't be fucked with & piss off out of fear. Let their brains run with what they've heard. Makes my life easier. :D
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